Certain placements in synastry would NEVER allow me to get close to a person. In other words, they would spell the end of a committed relationship because I would run away . Some would make me watch the person like a hawk. One of these I have with a close friend, but I watch him like a hawk. However, most of these are strong enough to make me avoid ever even beginning a relationship with a person. You may think I am foolish or narrow minded. However, if you watch your life and the charts of the people in your life, you may come to agree with me. In the examples, the first placement would be the other person and the second placement would be me( or you, the reader)
Chiron Conjunct the Vertex
The Chiron person will bring you pain.
Nessus Conjunct the Sun
The Nessus person will bring you cutting pain, in the form of abuse. This will feel terrible. The relationship is unlikely to work. The end of the relationship is likely to be traumatic.
Nessus Conjunct the Moon
The Nessus person may not be as easily seen by you as is the case with the Nessus/Sun situation. Hence, when a Nessus conjuncts your Moon, you may be mesmerized into thinking it is not an abusive relationship. Your body may suffer due to denial. I do not think this relationship can ever be positive for the Moon person.
Chiron Conjunct the North Node
That which conjuncts the North Node becomes a THEME for the relationship. In this case, it will be pain. I don’t care if the guy is Adonis, I would never enter a relationship with this.
Mars conjunct the Moon
This may not be a danger aspect as much as a highly irritating and annoying aspect. If you don’t like to be bitten by a perpectual mosquito, steer clear. I don’t think this relationship can ever feel good, regardless of other positive placements.
Moon square the Moon
I don’t care about the few reports of Aunt Rose and Uncle Hermann being married for fifty years with this placement. Do you live in their bedroom? I do not think this couple can have a simpatico. Simpatico is what it is all about.
Nessus Conjunct the Vertex
Nessus is a powerhouse. I don’t care how much some people want to dress it up. I don’t believe in saying things so people will think I am nice. Life is not, always, about nice. If one has to act as if it is, one is living in delusions. *Sigh* In the case of Nessus conjunct the Vertex, the Nessus person would bring abuse to the vertex person.
Bilk Conjunct the Sun
Bilk is what it says it is. It feels horrible to be taken advantage of, of course. Hence, get out your charts and check on the Bilk asteroid. It is an easy way to avoid hardships. If you have to deal with someone who has this aspect conjunct your Sun, watch every move, particularly with money. Bilk connotes more of a white collar crime than stealing your pocketbook :/
Nemesis Conjunct the North Node
I do not like the Nemesis asteroid. It hurts so badly to be betrayed by someone whom you love and trust. Nemesis connotes betrayal by someone from whom you least expect it. In the above case, it will be a Theme of the relationship.
Sado Conjunct the Moon
If I saw this in synastry, you would see me run so fast that I would do the one meter mile in a second. Sado is not an asteroid to take lightly. It will play out, from what I have observed in working with charts.
Here is a link to my list of asteroids.
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