First of all, if you have never read my website, I am not politically correct. If you are a snowflake who is “hurt” by strong sentiments, please stop reading now. If you are still here, I will tell you why I have such a strong message in my title.

First of all, there is a sociological aspect to Meghan’s complaints. Yes, the world has been racist. Yes, there are bigoted morons in the world. Yes, a public figure will be criticized unfairly. Look at Melania Trump. So, when Meghan made the decision to marry Harry and partake of the wealth and fame of the royal family, she was, in effect, signing up for these unfortunate societal things.

People say she can’t have her cake and eat it too. I agree. She was not famous before her marriage. She did not have the same level of public voice before her marriage. These are part of the benefits. The drawbacks are that people target you. Anyone should know this. Therefore, it is hard to feel sympathy for her. However, if she truly does not want to be a royal, she should give up the title and become a private citizen. This includes giving up the wealth and status.

That is my opinion, but that is not why I am writing this article. This article will show WHY she is doing this; why she is so clueless. We can see this in her natal chart. I have, also, done a synastry with Harry. I cannot see how this marriage can work. It is a synastry from hell. I have posted the synastry above but I have an article on it and I will link it.

For now, we will look at her natal chart. To put it very simply, Meghan is an egomaniac with an inferiority complex. Meghan is not how she appears, through no fault of her own. She has a chart with a full bottom half–i.e planets occupying the lower half of the chart. This is the chart of an introvert. An introvert needs to accept that she is an introvert. If not, she will be skating on thin ice on which she cannot navigate. Meghan tries to have a “big personality” and it is not her natural state.

Now, we have to add the Leo Sun, which does have a big personality i.e a big show. However, the rest of her chart is introverted. That means she is very self focused, through no fault of her own. It is the chart energies. However, she takes everything very personally and this is not a good omen for being a royal. All royals get hammered in the press. Fergie was called fat. Diana was called dumb. Charles was called ugly and a loser. Camellia was called a dog. If people harrass Meghan for being mixed race, which I have not seen, it is simply the ejaculations of ignorant moronic people–nothing more or less than the treatment of other royals.However, due to the fact that Meghan takes things so personally, it is almost impossible for her to shake it off.

Now, I can relate to her on this.She has the dreaded Cancer Mars. It is a very hard Mars. Hers is much harder due to the placement in the 12th House. Cancer Mars may be the flu, but Cancer Mars in the 12th house is Ebola. I will explain why.

Cancer Mars is a Cardinal Mars, so we have leadership and strength. However, the sign of Cancer is an inward oriented sign. When Cancer Mars gets angry, they stuff it. They stuff it and stuff it and then they either explode or implode. Usually, they implode. They can do self destructive acts like overeat(very common) or just make fools of themselves because they did not deal with a normal emotion(anger) in a forthright and direct way.

One trait of the Cancer Mars is passive aggression. There are few that are as “talented” in passive aggression as is a Cancer Mars. It is simply the nature of how this Mars handles strong emotions. Hence, when Meghan blindsided the Queen, I bet anger had been building up for a long time and Meghan did not know how to handle it in a direct way. I do give her a pass, in a sense, because her Mars is in a very suppressed house, the 12th house. Hence, for her to take direct action is like a poodle flying a plane. It is almost impossible.

Now, we have her family—URGG.This is not her fault. She has a very non nurturing relationship with her mother. I feel very sad when I see this. Everyone needs to be nurtured. When you are not, the pain runs very deep. It makes you into a kind of mutant. Weird things come out of you as a result. You are not “totally right”. No one is really “totally right” but people who are not nurtured try to receive nurturing in ways that are not healthy for them. This can result in poor choices and poor planning. I don’t think Meghan thought out the ramifications of being a royal. Poor planning is a big part of her current problem.

I can see her relationship with her mother in the Moon/Saturn conjunction.She has Moon/Jupiter which does give her a bubbly personality and this is very real, but her mother was not her friend. Her mother was very critical of her. In return, she is very critical of herself.

Also, we see she had a unstable childhood due to the Pluto in the 4th house. There was violence in some form, perhaps suppressed, but it was an unsafe home.

She is somewhat low in water. She has one personal planet in water. Water gives us empathy. Hence, her empathy to others is not huge. I am not saying she does not have empathy, but it is not a very string trait. If we combine this with introversion, it points to a very self focused person. If you are a royal, it would be hell if you could not “shrug off” the criticism. This is one of the major problems she is facing now and why she is acting like a “spoiled brat” to all outward appearances.

Her father was good to her. She gets along better with men than women. I don’t think she trusts women. Hence, she and Kate and she and the Queen must have a cool detente. This is not her fault. It is the nature of her chart.

Lastly, her highly afflicted Mars squares her Moon, Jupiter and Saturn. This makes the relationship with women so much harder than for most people in the population. It makes her much more critical of herself. It makes her doubt herself a great deal. Hence, we see someone who is trying to be important, but feels like a speck of dust.

The more I write, the more I feel sorry for her. Her chart is not one for a royal. I do not see the marriage lasting and she should be very careful that an “accident” does not befall her.

Five Reasons I Think Harry and Meghan Markle Will Not Last

Reasons I Do Not Think Harry and Meghan Markle Will Last—–Part Two

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I did a chart for the death day of Joan Rivers. I was aghast that asteroids for foul play were very strong. She had just insulted the Obamas. I think it is dangerous to insult people like this, as we can see in the over fifty “suicides” of friends of Hilary Clinton. I like the word” friends”. Don’t you?

Well, things are scarily bad in our current society. Was Kobe’s death an accident or foul play. I will try to address this. At the moment, I am trying to ascertain an Ascendant. We don’t know his actual time of birth, but I like to try to approximate an Ascendant when I do a chart. A chart seems so amorphous with no time of birth. I can’t seem to sink my teeth into it.I am thinking that we could learn more from a look at his daughter’s chart, too.

Now, please hear this. I chose a time of birth. There is one site on the web that says a Capricorn ASC. This does not seem right to me.A Capricorn Ascendant, usually, has an angular appearance. I chose a Sagittarius Ascendant for a number of reasons. Kobe was very, very graceful. He moved like a dancer, in the manner of Princess Di, who was a Sagittarius Ascendant.

He had a positive “vibe”. He exuded enthusiasm, which is classic for a Sagittarius Ascendant. This Ascendant may be the most athletic one. Princess Di was a ballet dancer. This Ascendant tends to have long legs.

After I chose this particular Ascendant, other things seemed to fit. He had Neptune conjunct the Ascendant, which gives a very beautiful face, which he had. Also, we have several planets in houses that make sense.( As most people know, the time of birth determines which planets are in which houses.)

With this time of birth, we have the very painful Moon conjunct Chiron in the house of romance. I listened to a U tube entry which described his alleged rape of a hotel worker. He settled the case for several million dollars. He said that he thought it was consensual,but admitted to choking her. She had bruises on her neck which could not be denied.

I hope people are not angry that I am speaking “ill” of the dead. I am, always, honest. Why spend your precious time here if I blow smoke up your derriere? I will never do that. Know that one fact about me. When it comes to my craft, astrology, I will, always, tell you the truth. I have Moon conjunct the MC. You will see my open heart in my career.

Also, back to my choosing of the Sagittarius Ascendant,someone of Kobe’s stature SHOULD have an occupied tenth house. With my theoretical time of birth, we have three heavy hitter planets in the tenth house.

When I heard about the rape allegation, I thought about Mars conjunct Pluto as making sense. Mars conjunct Pluto is one classic aspect for violence.Also, the alleged rape was seen by the world. That which occupies the tenth house is seen by the world.

While we are discussing Kobe, in general, he was gifted with charisma due to the Venus conjunct Mars. People on a global scale saw his charisma since this conjunction was in the tenth house. Also, Kobe has the refined Venus in Libra. To outer appearances, he was very refined and elegant.

I have added some asteroids. There are some interesting things that have come to light, as is always the case with asteroids. He has the asteroid Prey conjunct his Pluto and Venus. Prey is sandwiched between the two at a one degree orb for each.

Pluto conjunct an asteroid gives it power. This power seems to be used for good. I have Pluto conjunct Dejanira. I will fight against bullies. Dejanira is the victim asteroid, so instead of my becoming a victim, I am an activist against bullying when I see it online or in my personal life.

So, in terms of the Prey asteroid, Kobe may have defended people who were bullied. He was a coach for his daughter’s basketball team. He may have encouraged young girls in sports. Now, Prey conjunct Venus shows HE will be prey when he is in love. Venus and the Moon are yin planets–receptive planets. Hence, the native is on the receiving end of the bad action, in this case the “prey”. I hope that made sense.

Another aspect that strikes me is the Saturn conjunct the Sun. This indicates a father who was very critical of the native. In turn, the native is very critical of himself. We, also, see a very painful relationship with the mother in the one degree orb aspect between Chiron and the Moon. For Kobe, his mother and women, in general, were equated with pain. Also, his own emotions were painful to him, personally. They, likely, felt like unwanted aliens.

This is very sad. Kobe was an orphan, emotionally. If we add the aspect of violence to this, we can see how his pain may have been channeled into violence. I hope I don’t have to say that I am not condoning violence, but some of the people who comment on my articles are morons(just keepin it real),so I add this caveat.

The Chiron/Moon is in the fifth house in this chart in which I estimated birth time. I think his romantic life( affair/rape) brought a great deal of pain, so a fifth house Chiron would fit. Chiron needs to fit into the house of the most pain for any native in his birth chart.

On this theoretical chart, his NN(life purpose) conjuncts the MC, which is career and the public angle. This fits. Someone as famous as Kobe should have a NN which indicates this.

One more thing about his natal chart before I move into transits. Uranus conjunct Ixion. Ixion is lawlessness. People with a prominent Ixion, such as conjunct the Ascendant, seem to be in trouble with the law. They have a “screw it” attitude to rules.

In Kobe’s case, Ixion was conjunct Uranus, so he had erratic ups and downs with the law, which he did. Some aspects are generational, which this may be. It does not mean everyone with this aspect will have trouble with the actual law, but they move to the beat of their own drummer when it comes to rules.

Now, we are onto transits. I added some asteroids I thought were relevant. I may do another article and add more, but let’s see what we can find with these. Also, I will look at transits involving planets. First of all, we have a close conjunction of transit Mars with natal Neptune. Many people have this aspect and this transit and do not die in airplane crashes. However, IF Mars was conjunct his Ascendant, it would be very significant.

I wonder if his Ascendant was a higher degree of Sagittarius, such that Mars did conjunct it. I would not be surprised. If this were the case, the planet of war and aggression would be attacking his physical body, which could be said to be what happened.

If someone wants to do the chart over with the Ascendant at the degree of transit Mars, it would be very interesting. Since I have gone this far, I am not going to do it now, but I may at a later time.

WOW Jupiter seems to be a major factor in death. His natal Jupiter is 27 degrees Cancer. Transit Apophis, which means chaos leading to possible doom and destruction, is an exact square to his natal Jupiter.

Transit Jupiter, which seems to be a major factor in death, squares his natal Mars at a one degree orb.Squares are a locked in, immovable energy. In transit, I can see squares being fate.

His natal Melpomene, which means a huge tragedy, is an exact square to transit Venus. Venus is love. Love is blocked on this day and tragedy occurs.

Transit Moon conjuncts natal Pholus at two degrees. Pholus explodes that which it touches. It is, often, a factor in crashes. I am not sure what to make of this but I am putting it forth to get your opinions and because it seems of great importance.

This is a rather shallow look at the transits. Honestly, I do not do a lot of study into transits because I think that they do not show, usually, the DEGREE of what will happen. In other words, they do not seem to show whether you will have a car accident or cut your finger with a knife. I could be wrong. People who have more experience with transits are welcomed to give their opinions.

I know that in the case of JFK, it was almost clear to see he would be murdered. I do not do transits enough to predict things like this. I am not comfortable with predictions, in general, because I think they are more in the realm of God than in that of astrology.

I feel very comfortable with natal and synastry. I think God gave us each a blueprint and He wants us to know our earth suit. I think astrology is a science, not a dark art, for those who accuse me of not being a real Christian*sigh*

Well, on that note, I will conclude this article. I may do another one with the Sagittarius ASC at the degree of transit Mars and see what we can see from that.

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I was not satisfied with my other article. I don’t want to liken his death to food calling me because I know that is a cheap analogy, but I could not stop seeing if asteroids would fit his chart and yield answers, as it did in the death of Joan Rivers. Her death was foul play.

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I am frankly “blown away”. I believe Astrology can answer any question. The lack would be in the astrologer, not the chart. There are hundreds of asteroids. I use roughly three hundred, but this is not really enough. The study of asteroids is a life long study and can never be mastered, per se. In that way, it is like the Bible.

I really did not expect to find the “answer” to why Kobe’s plane crashed. I thought it was too daunting of an endeavor. However, as I said, the answer is in the charts, somewhere. I will tell you what I found.

First of all, one U Tube video said that most, if not all, helicopters were grounded. I know this was the the case for police helicopters. For a private helicopter, a special dispensation, if you will, had to be made in order to fly. One U tube host intimated that since Kobe was so wealthy that he could break the rules. I don’t know if this is true or anyone could break the rules. However, I know that the visibility was so bad that a special dispensation had to be made. The U tube host intimated that Kobe’s hubris was the root of the crash : that Kobe thought the rules did not apply to him.

I took that point of view and added asteroids that had to do with rash, poorly thought out actions, like Icarus(1566). Most people know his story. He flew too close to the Sun and perished. The underlying root of his flying too close to the Sun was that he took an unneeded risk. I, also, added the asteroid Hybris(430), which is Hubris.

In the chart above, I changed my estimated time of birth a bit, so that the transit Mars would be conjunct the Ascendant.I think something profound had to hit the physical body in the case of death. However, this fact would not change the asteroids mentioned above, as well as some other asteroid connections that are almost too unbelievable to be true.

I will explain the meaning of some of the other critical asteroids and then I will show their position in the chart. The asteroid Ate (111)is, also, too much risk taking. It is like jumping from a cliff into water below. It is like driving on an icy road, that kind of thing. It could, also, be an emotional risk, like talking to someone on the internet and traveling alone to meet him in a strange city.

There is another asteroid,Bellerophon, which relates to accidents and particularly accidents resulting from rash action. YIKES.

Now, I will try to explain how these asteroids fit into the chart above. Wow. His natal Ate( and remember asteroids remain the same regardless of the time of birth) is an exact conjunction to Transit Hybris. Transit Mars is an EXACT conjunction to these two asteroids—18 Sagittarius for them all.

Then, Transit Bellerophon is a two degree conjunction with natal Hybris.

Transit Aphophis is a 4 degree conjunction with Natal Chaos. Aphophis actions leading to disaster or doom. I do not usually go above a three degree conjunction, but I am adding this because it is very profound.

In the time of birth I chose, we have an amazing confluence of asteroids. Again, the time was my theoretical time of birth. However, we have Ate conjunct the Ascendant. Melopomeme(18) conjunct the Descendant, which is tragedy in love. Then, we have Aphophis making this a T square. He does have a T square with all of these. We just don’t know if they conjunct the angles.

Oh My Lord, Transit Hybris makes an almost exact Grand Cross.

I think I have to stop here because I am freaking myself out. Just on a spiritual note, I think everyone wants to think that God is real and God in in control of this fragile life we each have. Astrology answers this question over and over again for me. That is one reason I love it. I hope you have gotten something valuable from this article.

I want to give a shout out to a wonderful website in which I learned about many of these asteroids. Check her out to get asteroid numbers I did not add.She is so amazing that she should be seen by all.

It is the website Straightwoo.come. Here is the link:

The Asteroids of Pain, Loss, and Abuse

Postscript

I was listening to a pilot describe what he think happened. I am a layman, but this is what I think the pilot said. The visibility was very poor. The pilot was following a highway, as helicopters do. The Air Traffic Control told the pilot he was flying too low and had to move up. The pilot could not see the road below, the landmark, if he moved up, so he did not. This dilemma resulted in the pilot loosing his bearings and crashing.

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I ask this question with a lot of thoughts in my mind. First of all, being a royal is a classic “double edged sword.” One has great wealth, access to luxuries beyond most people in the world, great fame(unearned) and great glamor, by virtue of being royal.

However, on the other hand, one’s every move is scrutinized. One has little room for error. If one falls, people are ready to crucify. In the case of Diana, her life dream was to marry Charles. However, she found the dream was, in reality, a nightmare.

However, putting all that aside, one must be savvy, emotionally intelligent, self aware and cunning to remain a royal in good standing. One must understand what it entails and buckle under and mold oneself to that model. That is the deal with the devil, if one can put it that way(and I think one can).

I don’t think Meghan understood what royal life entailed(understandingly so) I don’t really think anyone can conceptualize the gilded prison until one enters. However, I do not think Meghan is self aware enough to navigate it, even if she understood it. I will explain why in this article. Also, I don’t think she is the kind of person who will submit to authority, as one must in the royal way of life. In addition, I don’t think she can conceptualize the effect her actions will have on consequences. Due to this, I fear for her life. One does not rebel against the royal family and make a graceful( or long lived) exit. Take that lesson from Diana.

WOW, I just drew up another chart with some asteroids and she has Nessus as almost an exact conjunction to her Ascendant. This kind of takes my breath away. She does not have enough self awareness to handle Nessus conjunct the Ascendant. What an awful chart. I have to say.

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I know this is a big topic.It combines astrology with psychology and good old common sense. Also, someone very close to me is a Malignant Narcissist. I spent a life time TRYING to figure out what wrong. I studied oodles of books. I joined support groups. I bought oodles of books. However, as good as many of the books were, they were just words. I did not truly understand Malignant Narcissism until I saw Meghan Markle in action.

I am fortunate to be able to look at the “blueprints” of people. I am an astrologer. Astrology is, essentially, looking at the blueprints of human beings. I do handwriting analysis, too. However, nothing is an thorough or monumental as astrology in seeing the basic nature of a person.

Meghan’s chart has many warning signs. She has the classic sign of an abuser—Nessus conjunct the Ascendant. The Ascendant is one’s face to the world. That which is conjunct the Ascendant is what one “puts out” to the world. Everyone who has Nessus conjunct the Ascendant would be tempted to be an abuser. In some cases, the person could temper it. However, it is his/her basic nature.

Also, Meghan does not see the perspective of others. She is an introvert, and a very strong introvert. She does not see things from the viewpoint of others because she is so wrapped up in herself. This is not her fault. It is the occupied lower half of the chart.

Let me give an example. If we see Person A at a party and that person is asking others about their lives, jobs, children etc, we may see an extrovert in action. This person may truly be able to jump in the shoes of others. If we see Person B, he may be sitting alone. He may be wishing someone would come and talk to him. He may be a classic introvert. He may wait for people to draw him in. Of course, this is greatly simplified, but there is a different perspective between the extrovert and introvert.

There are many introverts who are not Malignant Narcissists because the condition is fairly rare. However, a hallmark is lack of empathy. If one cannot see life from the perspective of others, this can be part of the picture of no empathy. In the case of the Malignant Narcissist, there has to be something wrong with their Moon and his Jupiter. The Moon is the heart, which includes empathy. Jupiter is conscience.

However, before I discuss the Moon and Jupiter, I would like to add some asteroids and see what we find. She has Bilk conjunct the MC at 2 degrees. Bilk is to take advantage. She has it on the angle of society, reputation and career. The song “Gold digger” was linked to her new website as a joke. However, no joke is absent from truth or it would not be funny. I feel sorry for her, at some level, but it was funny. It is said that she stole some of Princess Diana’s priceless jewels. I don’t know if this is true, but Bilk conjunct the MC could do something like this.

She has asteroid Aura conjunct the Sun. She does have an aura of charisma and confidence. This aspect makes perfect sense. She does seem to shine like the Sun. That which conjuncts the asteroid Aura will be seen in your aura, for better or worse. It may not reflect how you truly are, but people will see you as such. I have Dejanira conjunct my aura. People seem to think they can victimize me, but I, actually, am very strong. I have Pluto trine the NN, sextile Mercury and sextile the Sun, so I am not victimized. When these people find out, it is, usually, a shock. In the same way, Meghan seems very Sun-like,confident and extroverted, but she is not.

Meghan has Anubis conjunct Mars at one degree. Anubis is the god of the underworld. Anubis decides what kind of judgement will be given to those after death. This asteroid can show deaths, endings and/or transformations. I have not worked much with this asteroid, so cannot speak from personal experience. However, Mar is drive and having death as part of one’s drive does not seem fortunate. I see it as someone tempting fate. She is doing this by going against the Queen. It is said that she has taped and recorded the doings of the royals. This is like putting your middle finger in the face of Michael Corleone. One has to be very, very stupid, emotionally, to do this. Being emotionally clueless, tone deaf and frankly retarded is a classic sign of the MN(Malignant Narcissist)

The reason they are emotionally clueless is because they live in a fantasy world of their own importance. Meghan thinks she can go up against one of the most powerful people in the world. A MN would do this.No one with a foot based in reality would. Her Mars squares Jupiter, which is not something one would want to see. Jupiter in square with Mars makes for rash actions. Ummmmm?

She has Diana, the name asteroid, conjunct her Mercury at one degree. She was said to have been obsessed with Diana. She, subsequently, lied about this on a TV interview. The MN is a liar.

She has Fink conjunct her Venus at two degrees. What gets many people angry, myself included, is that she espouses feminism, yet climbs on the backs of men to get anything she has. She used her first husband to get the acting job in “Suits”. She left him after two years, I think. Then, she lived with a celebrity chef to gain access to the high level celebrities. She used Piers Morgan to meet Prince Harry, after which she dropped the celebrity chef. Then, she dropped Piers Morgan. This was a very poor idea. Now, Piers Morgan is an arch enemy. Anyone who could think clearly would never do that to Piers Morgan. Hence, more evidence for MN. They cannot reason out simple things.

In this vein, she thought she would leave the royal life of drudgery and make millions of dollars as an international superstar. She thought she could be another Diana. This thinking is truly insane. I hope my readers can see this. Her only cache to anything was the royal family. Now, she has become a laughing stock and a target. In essence, she wanted to be a big star with no personal cache. This is MN thinking at its most classic. The MN thinks his personal charm can open doors not available to lesser mortals. This is a grave error. When it does not come to fruition, the MN can spiral into a deep depression.

In addition, the MN thinks she is more savvy and cunning than lesser mortals. Meghan did not carry the pregnancy with Archie. She had a surrogate. However, at eight months pregnant with the huge baby bump and the skin tight dress and high heels, she was bending down like a gymnast. Anyone could see that she was not truly pregnant. At that stage of pregnancy, one’s balance does not allow one to do that. Also, in one video, the baby bump is jumping around as if it is silicon. *SIGH*

I do feel sorry for her, on one hand. On the other, I am angry. On the other, I want her to get what is coming to her to make up for all the pain I suffered at the hands of an MN( yes, projection!).

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I will use Meghan’s chart to help us explain why people dislike her so very much. I will use Psychology. I will use common sense. First of all, one reason I have such an interest in Meghan is because I have a very close relative who is a Malignant Narcissist. I have suffered terribly from this relationship. There are no words for the suffering the MN(Malignant Narcissist) inflicts on others.

Meghan has helped me to understand the MN and to heal. Nothing helped me ever— to the degree she has.I thank her for that. For others who had a parent, husband or someone from whom someone could not escape who was a MN, I offer this article to you with love.

First of all, the MN has certain distinct traits. One is lack of empathy. If you can imagine a little child with a mother with no empathy, that was me. To be close to a person with no empathy is like living with a monster. One has to throw off parts of themselves to appease the monster. One has to jettison one’s dignity, one’s connection to one’s intuition and other vital parts of the human. One has to live in constant fear of what the MN will do if one does not try to control the situation. I have lived in fear my entire life. It is a fear that permeates one’s soul.

Lack of empathy is a deep, all encompassing trait for the MN. They can’t make it go away in the same manner in which zebra cannot change its stripes. They can not turn it off and off in the same manner in which one cannot change one’s race. It is consistent and it is STUCK. However, most MNs know that there is something wrong with them and they fake empathy.

They do not know that they are faking empathy, per se. They do know that they are not normal and must try to “act normal”.

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Learning Basic Astrology Using the Natal Chart of Meghan Markle

I thought that it would be an interesting study to use the chart of Meghan Markle and just try to learn some astrology basics. I like to make astrology interesting and fun. I have written many articles on Meghan because she is teaching me about someone in my life who is very similar and someone I could never understand. If you would like to read my other articles, please put her name in my Search Engine and they will be available.

First of all, I will start with a placement of which I know intimately. Thai is Mars in Cancer. Mars in Cancer is in the Fall. A Fall placement is impotent. I was thinking of a simple, yet descriptive way I could explain Mars in the Fall. Forgive any sexual lewdness, but I see it as a man who cannot perform the sex act, so to speaK, *SIGH*. However, he wants to. Let’s put him in a room with a bikini model. This is his big chance and what happens? Nothing.

The above example may be stretching it a bit. However, Mars in Cancer, simply, does not do Mars well. Mars represents all goals and all passions. I find that the expression of anger is very hard for me. When someone makes me angry, I will do all manner of unhealthy things. I may stuff the anger into my stomach and get a stomach ache. I may stuff the anger into my chest and get a tight chest. I may feel guilty. Eventually, I will face the issue head on and deal with it well( I think) but it will be a task of enormous proportions.One must look at more than the Mars in the sign because there are factors modifying the Mars, such as house placement. However, for this article, we will simplify and not look at other Mars in houses other than Meghan’s in the 12th.

Her 12th house placement is a great influence on her. The 12th house is always very defining of a person. It is the hardest house. The reason is due to the fact that life is practical and the 12th House is mystical and spiritual. Also, for a person to function with all the difficulties with life and people, it is easier not to be a mountain dwelling mystic. Also, and this is very important, the native WANTS to reach out and the 12th house makes him hold back. The 12th House is the house of suppression.

To bring it back to Meghan, she may appear to be a “go getter”, but this is not her natural state. For example, there are some women who are naturally plump. They may try to diet and be fashionably thin, but it is not a natural fit. It is something that is a constant fight. “Please, pass the cheesecake”.

Meghan has a Cancer Ascendant, so she appears maternal and warm. The Ascendant sign does not tell us about the “down deep” nature of the person. It is the face the person wears at a cocktail party or at a first meeting. The person is not trying to be “fake”. The Ascendant is simply not a deep part of the chart, per se. A person COULD have other placements which make the Ascendant ring true or they may not.

I am a Libra Ascendant. My home is filled with beautiful colors, pillows and paintings. I make it like a Pottery Barn home. I am very fair in all business dealings. I will never take advantage of anyone because Libra rules justice. I, often, will pay someone more than they ask if they do an excellent job. I like to see both people happy in any business deal, myself and the other person.

Libra Ascendant is, also, lazy, so I have to add this for honest disclosure. If any sign wants to sit on the settee and be fed grapes, it is a Libra Ascendant. However, in reality, I am my Sun(Gemini) and my Moon(Cancer). I have the Gemini crazy sense of humor and the Cancer c kind of loyalty, which is akin to Michael Corleone.Yes, Fredo had to go, but he waited until Mama died. So, in reality, the Libra Ascendant is rather superficial. I hope I made that clear.

I think Harry wanted an earth mother, more like Diana, a Cancer,but this is not Meghan. I would call Meghan a “fake out” Cancer because she has only one personal planet in Cancer. I have an article on “fake out” placements. The person is not trying to fool anyone. The person simply appears a way she is not. Meghan is a much stronger Leo than a Cancer. They adjoining signs are very different.

Meghan is a Leo Sun and Mercury. We can sum this up by saying,”Hey, look at me!” Leo appears confident and they are confident. They like to be the center of attention. They are, usually, positive in their mannerisms and speech.So, the Leo we see in Meghan is a slice of her that is true.

Meghan is very intelligent due to the Mercury conjunct the Sun. This aspect should give a logical approach to life. I don’t see this in her, but this is one part of her. I see a very rash approach to life, but people have many slices. They key to an experienced astrology is to make a 3D person from a 2D chart. I, always, summarize the natal chart for a client. If not, there are hundreds of pieces and some seem to contradict. However, once I see themes, I can bring the most important aspects to light.

There are so many aspects to study, so I will limit my article to a few more. She has the very disconcerting Venus square Neptune. This aspect makes the native unable to see the truth when romance is involved. The native is simply fogged by Neptune in the arena of love. When she wakes up, it is @@@@@@, what have I gotten myself into. WHO is this person?

I experienced this in synastry once. I made a huge fool of myself. I would listen to no one. This person was truly the proverbial frog and I was the blind man. Neptune is very powerful, so please respect it, particularly in square and oppositions.

I will end with an aspect that I think makes for the rash actions we have seen with Meghan. Her Mars squares the Moon, Saturn and Jupiter in the third house. The third house is the house of self expression. I, honestly, think she was so very foolish to give up the “gig” with the royals and believe she could be an international superstar on her own. THEY made her a super star. She has very little street cred on her own. She used men to get where she was, which was not a hugely successful person. When she became a royal, she became “someone”, in terms of her own fame and wealth. I see the Mars square as being a major reason for this level of blindness.I don’t like the royals. I think all of them are terrible BUT if my goal was international super stardom, which hers appears to be, I would stick with them.

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This is not really written in an angry or belittling way, although I am angry due to having a very close relative with this condition. The pain of being a child and dealing with someone with MN is horrible. Words cannot describe the desolation of having to look in the face of a parent with no empathy. As a child, you know you are in “big trouble” and no one will come to save you, in most cases.

In my case, no one would tell me the truth. Maybe, people did not know. My father was very weak, as most spouses of the MN are. For some reason, there are men, such as my father and as Harry, who are successful in the business world, or in the case of Harry, born into a high position, who desire to be ruled by an abuser. For some reason, this is “normal” to spouses of the MN. Of course, something is wrong with the person married to the MN.

The spouse of the MN may show love to the children, as my father did to me. He was a kind person, although not protecting his children kind of makes that label a little strange.Harry seems like a person with empathy, a somewhat normal person, we can say. However, the MN breaks all the toys in the room, the “toys” being people, of course. The MN will destroy the majority of people in her circle. However, there are, always, a few to whom she shows a different face, a good face, even a perfect face. These people defend her. These people are there to deny the reality of the majority of her circle, who have seen her real face. The existence of the “flying monkeys”, the defenders of the MN, makes it very hard for her victims to trust themselves.

Understanding her real face is very hard. Most children of the MN are permanently damaged. The reason is that they are gaslighted to such a degree that they do not know their own reality. When they are young, they will be severely punished if they show a reality different than the MN. In time, they cannot see reality as it is. They, usually, have PTSD from having to endure the unremitting level of stress that comes from living with a MN. It is like a literal war zone. At any moment, the MN may go into a rage and hurt you.

Honestly, I have spent a lifetime trying to understand my mother. I never could. Could she help it? Did she like to hurt me? Did she like to see me suffer? DID SHE DO IT ON PURPOSE? Meghan has helped me to answer these questions. I truly could not understand MN before observing her. I do understand it now to a large degree, not perfectly. I will try to help you to understand it, too. This should help if your parent is an MN. I think it is worse for those with parents than spouses. However, we, often, marry spouse with MN or Narcissism to a lesser degree. Not all Narcissists are MNs. The MNs are the very worst of the Narcissists.

A major trait of an MN is lack of empathy.However, they do fake empathy, so many people outside their inner circle cannot see their lack of empathy. The Narcissist who is not Malignant will have some dampening of empathy, but not a complete lack. The saving grace for the children of the MN is that they do have shame. If they did not have empathy OR shame, they would be sociopaths. I don’t think I could have recovered from a sociopath mother. I know some people do, but I don’t think I could have.

The MN has a great deal of shame. It is pathological shame. They berate themselves for not being perfect. They have to be perfect any anything they do. Their children have to be perfect, as well. The result of their impossible desire to be perfect is that they construct a false face. This face IS perfect. This face is the “Markle Sparkle”. The person is not trying to “fake anyone out”. This person is running a way from a teeny, tiny sense of self that tells them they are despicable and horrible. The inner voice of an MN is terribly abusive to them. However, that is the voice they use on their children and their spouses.

With a spouse, there is an initial period of “love bombing”. The sociopath does this, too. The person who is love bombed feels wonderful. The person who is loved bombed feels euphoric. They think this state will go on forever. However, on the other side of love bombing is devaluation. Devaluation is so terribly painful, especially for a child. The child can never be perfect, but that is the expectation. The mother hates the child for failing her. The child knows she is hated and she hates herself. She thinks it is her fault that her mother is “acting this way”. I hope this article touches all the people who blame themselves.

The natural reaction is to want to “get back” at the MN for making you suffer. Actually, if you read the comments on any U Tube video of Meghan Markle, you can see the pure hatred toward her. I think a big part of this is from people who had MN abuse them. However, even if one never knew an MN, the MN engenders rage in other people.

The reason is because the MN thinks she is smarter than other people.People feel the arrogance leveled at them and hate the MN for it. In the case of Meghan, she is an emotional idiot. Many MNs are smart intellectually, and Meghan seems to be such. However, they have the emotional intelligence of a four year old. In fact, when my children were about this age, I realized that they had more empathy than my mother(black humor *Sigh*) A dog has much more empathy than an MN.I know this sounds funny, but it is not a joke. Maybe, that is why many children of MNs love dogs.

The MN makes many blunders as a result of over estimating her own intelligence and underestimating the intelligence of everyone else. Meghan has made so many blunders that I do not know where to begin. I will take the recent court case. She, likely, gave copies of her letter to her father to five friends to leak to “People” magazine. However, Meghan is bringing a lawsuit against a paper saying they abused her by publishing her letter. I doubt her five friends will lie for her( and go to jail for it a la Martha Stewart, as this was her crime) Hence, Meghan will be publicly humiliated. This trial is just beginning, so some of these are my educated suppositions. However, there are dozens of stories about Meghan’s emotional retardation and that is my larger point.

I will give one example of emotional retardation. Meghan was not pregnant. She used a surrogate. A little common sense and a study of the U Tube videos of her pregnancy will show you this fact. In one video, the bump is shaking like jelly. In several pictures taken on the same day, within a several house time lapse,the bump has moved from a normal place to almost her very, lower abdomen. It has moved about six or more inches. In other pictures taken days apart, the bump is small in some, medium in others and HUGE in others. Also, when she is nine months pregnant, she bends down and pats a dog and gets up quickly with no help. This is close to impossible for a pregnant women at this stage. However, Meghan was to be “better than anyone else”. She is the rare pregnant woman who can wear three inch( or more) heels and bend up and down. The MN always has to be the best, a trait I did not explore here.

There is nothing wrong with a surrogate, but in the MN’s mind, it makes her “less than perfect”. Meghan seemed to hate Kate because she, likely, saw Kate as perfect.The MNs do see selected people as perfect. The MN hates these people in a morbid and destructive way, another trait I did not explore.Meghan sent Kate a knife for a present.

I want to end by completing the topic of Meghan’s emotional retardation, as manifested by her “pregnancy”. No one who is emotionally intelligent would FLAUNT that fake bump. Someone could wear one, as I am told Amal Clooney did, but I do not know this for sure, but to FLAUNT it with the skin tight dresses and the ridiculous gymnastics is classic for an MN. They have to be perfect, they have to be better than anyone and they think you are too dumb to see through it all. This is why they are hated.( There are more reasons, but that is for another day).

I love you all and I especially love the people who understand what I am saying, as a result of being there i.e, living it.

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I have been thinking about this and then, I saw a U tube video discussing it. The situation is, actually, getting very scary. It is sad as to how very out of control Meghan is being. Several U Tube videos relate how Meghan is trying to follow in Diana’s footsteps in many ways.She is emulating Diana’s clothing, as well as seeming to follow Diana’s path in the royal family in other ways, which I will discuss.

However, one can never really help a Malignant Narcissist.They will not take your advice. They see your kindness as weakness. They see your devotion as stupidity. They hurt you because you have empathy and they don’t. Hence, without an intervention of Jesus, I don’t think anyone can stop Meghan. Meghan has to ask Jesus into her life. Jesus wants to help everyone, but not everyone wants His help.

There are many instances in which Meghan seems to be imitating Diana, as if Meghan has an obsessive script she must follow. Many of her clothes are exact replicas of Diana’s clothes( or very close replicas). I noticed the red and purple combination in her coat and dress when she was “pregnant” i.e had the fake baby bump because I remembered it with Diana. I discuss her “pregnancy” in other articles. You can find them by typing her name in my search engine.

In addition to clothes, Meghan asked for “privacy” as Diana did. However, Meghan used it as a ruse, as evidenced by her moving to the MOST intrusive location in the world–LA, California.
Also, Meghan is doing a “tell all” book, as Diana did.

The most upsetting thing of all is that I think Meghan is trying to make the royal family murder her, as they did with Diana. It is insane, to the nuclear degree to go against ‘the mob”. It would be insane to provoke Michael Corleone or Tony Soprano.The Royal Family is equivalent to the mob. If they want a trouble maker gone, that person will be disposed of and there will be no links to them. *Sigh*

I do think Meghan needs to stop now, take what money she can from the divorce, which seems inevitable, and leave the Royal Family alone. She needs to stop all manner and form of trying to provoke them. Meghan Markle against the Royal Family is like Fredo against Michael. I think everyone knows this, except, seemingly, Meghan.

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I know this is an Astrology site but I have to write about this series. I hope someone will share what they think, so we can talk about it. There are spoilers, so stop reading now if you don’t want to know what happens.

First of all, the ending is very much discussed. At first, it is very disappointing. It does not end in a “happily ever after” manner. In “The Institute”, King gave us a “happily ever after” ending. It did feel good, but maybe it was the feeling of eating candy for dinner instead of broccoli.The ending of the Dark Tower series was broccoli, no doubt about it. However, well after dinner, broccoli sits well and candy may give you a stomach ache.

It took me seven weeks to read the Dark Tower series. At times, I was frustrated. It felt as if King wandered off the side of the road to urinate and forgot to bet back on. In time, he remembered and you breathed a sigh of relief. However, the impact of the Dark Tower series on one is so profound that any meanderings are forgiven.

The book ended in the same way it began, with the exact same words. In other words, Roland was going to repeat the same, arduous journey. He was going to go through the same travails, horrors, sorrows and joys(because there was many, many joys). He would meed the same people( and animal) we had grown to love. It was a never ending quest, but he, of course, did not know this. His memory was wiped clear the the beginning of each journey.This is how I see it. Some people may differ in the details but everyone will see Roland is on a loop. The loop repeats again and again, as loops do.

I want to talk about the characters. One comes to know them very intimately. King has a wonderful affinity with animals. One character, Oy, is a kind of dog. However, he talks and he feels. Oy is my favorite character, as I am sure he is for many people. He has all of the simple loyalty of a dog, but he can relate like a human.

I think one reason the story is so profound is that each character is either very flawed or had very hard life experiences that broke him. The former is true for all the humans. The latter is true for Oy.
The main human characters are Roland, Eddie, Jake and Susannah. Each character started the journey with glaring flaws( as we all had). They ended the journey with profound wisdom. It felt like pieces of coal becoming diamonds.

Roland was a gunslinger. This breed of men were sheriffs of the world. The brought justice. They had to undergo rites of purification to become gunslingers. These rites were really rites of bravery and character. Roland was the last living gunslinger. His life quest was to find the Dark Tower, which held all the worlds together and to fix it because it was dying. His quest came before anything in his life. On his journey, he came to realize the value of friendships, bonding and love.

Eddie was a heroin addict. He was driven by delusions. He was haunted by the voice of his dead brother, another heroin addict. One of his greatest delusions was that his brother loved him. In reality, his brother tried to destroy Eddie because Eddie was smarter and more talented. A major part of Eddie’s journey was reclaiming his OWN view of himself.

Susannah was a split personality.She was born as Odetta Holmes. Her father was a wealthy dentist. She was a well mannered and refined black woman. The other was a tough, mean and murderous woman, Detta. Detta was very dangerous. She tried to kill Roland and Eddie many times. However, in time, Detta merged with Odetta and was named Susannah. Susannah went through many trials. She learned to love and marry a white man. She learned that race did not matter when it came to love. She learned to be BOTH refined and murderous, when murder was needed, and it was. In the worlds in which they traveled, each person needed to become a gunslinger.

Jake was a child when he was drawn into Roland’s world. He was going to a private school in NYC. His parents did not care for his inner self. His father wanted him to succeed to bring accolades on himself. His mother was having an affair. He had a house keeper who was kind to him. The house keeper kept Jake from despair, but Jake was very lonely—very soul lonely.Jake found his true father in Roland. Jake matured from a child to a wise young man. He gave his life to save others.

Oy was a bumbler, a kind of dog/raccoon mix. He could talk. He could feel. He could cry. He was Jake’s best friend. Oy, also, became a gunslinger. He gave his life to save Roland.

I think the book showed the life journey each person is called to walk. I think it showed that life is, in many ways, fated. I think it showed that the journey is more important than the destination. It showed that character is all we have, when it is all said and done.

Please,comment on this book and any other King books. I love him so much!

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People seem to love the tidbits, so I have some more. Some are oldies but goodies. These are the classics like Mars in Scorpio. My new readers should have the opportunity to study these. I have new ones, though, that come from doing more charts. Here goes.

1. Mars in Scorpio is always sexy. I don’t care if he looks like a troll. I am not saying Howard Stern looks like a troll, but Mars in Scorpio makes him sexy as a red corvette.
2. Venus trine Moon in the chart of a man is always charming. He truly appreciates women and they know it. He has many female friends and prefers women to men.
3. Aphophis conjunct Mercury does not know his proverbial derriere from his elbow. Prince Harry has it, as does James Comey. Their thinking is “off”. They cannot see long term consequences well. Harry married a psychopath. James Comey went on numerous talk shows when he was “guilty as sin” and should have known to stay home and hide under a bush.
4. Aphophis conjunct Venus has a love life that does not work. It is beset by chaos, no matter how hard he tries. It is just the stars, Dude, and not your fault.
5. Chiron in the 7th house has great pain with love. It is simply the nature of the planet of pain in the house of marriage.
6. Jupiter conjunct the Moon has an inner glow that manifests as great charisma, often. Johnny Carson had it and he is the poster boy for charisma.
7. Neptune conjunct Mercury is the classic aspect for a writer. Stephen King has it. Neptune trine Mercury is the same
8. Pluto trine Mercury is very perceptive. Don’t pee on his leg and tell him it is raining( a la Judge Judy)
9. Uranus conjunct Mercury is a brilliant person, but his mind may race in an electric manner. Queen Elizabeth has this. She has to be brilliant to deal with all the screw ups in her family.
10. Uranus conjunct the IC is a sign of an unsafe and scary childhood.
11. Pluto conjunct the IC is the sign of violence in the childhood.
12. Sado conjunct the IC is sadism done to the child
13. Lilith conjunct the Ascendant is always sexy.
14. Lilith conjunct the MC is sexy but does not want to be known as a sex symbol. She wants to be “liked for her mind”, so to speak.
15. Aura conjunct Dejanira appears to be easily taken advantage of. She may not be. One has to see the rest of the chart to know, but she appears to be a victim type
16. Chiron conjunct the Ascendant is, usually, bullied. Kate Middleton has it and she was bullied as a child
17. Mercury square Neptune is prone to live in a world of delusions.
18. Mercury square Uranus feels like his mind is attacking him.
19. Venus in any aspect to the Ascendant is beautiful.
20. Unaspected Mars has a terrible temper!

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I love tidbits and I am an Astro–Junkie. I bet you are, too, so here goes. The more I do charts, the more I learn. The more I learn the more I share.

1. Watch the degree of the IC. In synastry, if a person puts his planet or asteroid on your IC, you will feel it to your bones. If it is Venus, you will feel loved. If it is Nessus, you will feel abused. If it is the Moon, you will resonate with his heart. If it is the Sun, he will bring you confidence. If it is Aphophis, he will emit a feel of chaos that will go deep inside you. If it is Sado, he will be sadistic to you.

2. On your natal chart IC, the same rule applies. In your early home, you will have the theme of that asteroid or planet. If it is Sado, someone in your early home was sadistic to you. If it is Venus, you were loved. If it is the Sun, you were given confidence. If it is Pluto, your early home was violent. If it was Mars, your early home had strife.

3.The GC is an important point. It has taken me a long time to understand it. I have my NN conjunct the GC. The GC represents the gateway to other dimensions. Someone with a strong GC, such as the Sun conjunct the GC, Moon conjunt the GC, Ascendant conjunct the IC etc will be interested in everything that has to do with other dimensions. I have studied OBEs(out of body experiences) and I disciplined myself to learn how to have them. This is an example of how the GC would function.

4.The vertex in the natal will show what other people will bring to you. If Pluto conjunct the vertex, powerful people will come into your life. If the Sun conjunct the vertex, people will bring you confidence. If Nessus conjunct the vertex, abusive people will come into your life.

5. The anti–vertex is what YOU bring to others. If you have the Moon conjunct the Anti-vertex, you will bring your heart to others. If you have Dejanira conjunct the anti-vertex, you will bring your victim self to others. If you have Mars conjunct the AV, you will bring drive to others. The anti vertex is the exact opposite point of the vertex.

6.The “bad” asteroids can make you strong, so don’t freak out about them. However, they are like a loaded gun, so handle with care. An example of this would be Nessus conjunct the Ascendant. This person will tend to be very abusive. Nessus conjunct the NN is the same. Nessus conjunct the Sun is the same, although this seems to be an aspect in many surgeons. They do need an inner strength to be able to cut into another human being.Sado does not seem as if it has redeeming traits. However, it is, likely, the same as Nessus.

7.Venus in any aspect to the Ascendant is an attractive person. With the positive aspects, such as the Trine, the beauty seems to be more classic. With the hard aspects, such as quincunx and square, the beauty is more edgy.The closer the aspect, the more attractive the person.

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This article will, hopefully, be a guide to start you on your journey to the North Node. I have several other articles I will reference. This article will be an overall map.

To define the North Node—-it is a major indication of life purpose. The point of the North Node is to try to MASTER it.It is not the only point or the only way to see your purpose, but it is a major one. Each person has a purpose to their life on this earth. Hence, please take the time to really study your North Node and its aspects, so you can understand yourself better. I know it will be well worth it.

First of all, one must look at the HOUSE in which the North Node inhabits. House is more important than sign. One must, of course, understand that which each house signifies. It is worth taking the time to understand the meaning of each house because this is most basic to understanding Astrology.I will link the article about the NN in the houses, so you can find yours.

Second is the sign of the North Node. Sometimes, one is comfortable with this sign. At others, one is not. However, the house is, usually, not comfortable. I will link my article on the NN in the signs.

Thirdly and much overlooked are aspects to the North Node. Aspects will show you how easy or how difficult it is to master your North Node. It will, always, be somewhat difficult but HOW difficult differs from person to person.

I will link articles to various planetary and asteroid aspects to the North Node.

Lastly, there are people who have no aspects to the North Node. These people seem to be at a loss as to their life purpose.

THE NODES BY HOUSE

The Nodes–By House

The Nodes—By House

THE NODES BY SIGN

The Nodes–By Sign

The Nodes–By Sign

THE PLANETS CONJUNCT THE NORTH NODE IN THE NATAL CHART

The North Node Conjunct the Planets in the Natal Chart

I am not going to link all the articles on aspects to the North Node because there are dozens. Please, type your question into the Search engine. At a later date, I may link them, if people use this article because it takes quite a bit of work to link all of them

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I love tidbits. I think many of my precious readers do, too, from my comments. I hope you enjoy these and feel free to comment on any that strike you personally.

1.If you have Dejanira conjunct your MC and are abused, people will see it.Nicole Simpson had this and the world saw her abused. You may, also, be abused at work. Basically, when people see you, they will see a victim.( I hate to be so blunt but each person has to accept reality and every chart has some of these hard things)

2.If you have Dejanira conjunct your IC, you have been abused as a child.

3. If Dejanira is conjunct your DSC, you may not show your own victim side, but be attracted to people who do.

4.Chiron conjunct the Moon reveals a lot of pain with the mother and, also, with one’s own emotions.

5.Sado conjunct the Moon is a sadistic person (Sorry, Guys!)

6. Sado conjunct the IC is a person who experienced sadism as a child, usually by the mother but not always the mother.

7.Ceres conjunct the MC in a sexy guy makes him totally charismatic and totally compelling to others.
Johnny Carson had this. In his personal life, he was not really warm, but in public, he was one of the sexiest men who ever existed( my opinion)
Watch him on U tube if you don’t know him.

8. Pluto square Mars can give a sexy, smoldering quality in a man. The reason is that he could be violent. I know this sounds bad to say, but we do like smoldering in a man. However, Johnny Carson did have this and he was violent, so at least I told you about it.

9. Scorpio Ascendant does not like people to know too many personal details about them, even seemingly innocuous ones. We don’t know Melania Trump’s ASC( Ascendant), but I read a book about her. She reveals nothing to people, which makes me think she is a Scorpio ASC. Jackie Kennedy was the same way. She said she did not want the “little people” to know her daily activities. Johnny Carson is a Scorpio ASC, too. The native is, usually, sexy, simply based on this ASC.

10.Watch out for Nessus conjunct the ASC. These people are natural abusers. Meghan Markle is one.Nessus conjunct the North Node is the same.

11. Nessus conjunct the IC finds themselves attracted to abusers. However, every abuser hides this part of their nature at the beginning. This should go without saying.

12.Pluto conjunct the ASC seems to be intimidating. They appear to be tough. However, they may or may not be.

13. I have to say this again because it never fails, although it is in my other Tidbits series. Lilith conjunct the ASC is always sexy and she loves the attention.

14. Lilith conjunct the MC is always sexy, but she does not like the attention.

15.Watch out for Bilk conjunct the Sun. This person will try to use you for personal gain.

16. Mars conjunct Venus is always very sexy.

17.Venus conjunct the Sun is always charming, but may be too much of a people pleaser, through no fault of his own. It is simply the chart energies.

18. In synastry, watch out for Neptune in any aspect to Venus. The people won’t be able to see each other. It is worse for the Venus person.

19.Pluto conjunct the Sun person always has a great deal of personal power and inner strength. Check the house to see the predominant area in which their strength manifests.

20.Mars conjunct the Moon had a hard time with the mother. Also, they are very irritable.

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I always watch my relationships. I know the charts of the people in my life. If I have a problem with a person(yes, it happens occasionally), I carefully consider the synastry. The reason for this article is my feeling of dislike of a long term friend with whom I share a squared Venus. If one has a casual relationship, these aspects do not manifest. However, if one grows closer, one will feel them. That is not to say that one ends the friendship. It is merely to say that the charts will always come to pass.

I get frustrated with the “woke” people who think they can overcome chart aspects by chanting Ohm. You can’t. You will find this out in time. So, exchange the hubris of your “woke”(COUGH) status for a little humility. Onto Astrology

Sun square Sun
This, likely, applies to the Suns when they are in squared signs even if they do not aspect. The people do things very differently. In the case of Gemini/Virgo, Gemini has a “devil may care” attitude and Virgo counts the jars in the refrigerator. I think that of any planet to be squared, your best bet is the Sun. The Sun is the ego and if there is love and connection, people can overcome the ego. However, it will make for fights along the way.

Venus square Venus
I think one could have a relationship if one has excellent Moon aspects to overcome the Venus. However, the Venus square would be there in the manner of a “sore thumb”. Venus is what attracts us to a person or conversely repels us. In the case of a Venus square, there would be some level of repulsion.For example, one person could be very picky, as in Virgo Venus. One person could be loose with details, as in Gemini Venus. Hence, a natural antipathy can develop.

Mars square Mars
I am told that there can be an initial attraction. I have not had a relationship with a squared Mars, so cannot speak from experience but I do know that the relationship rarely lasts. Mars is a powerful planet. It is drive. Hence, the thwarting of the square does not bode well.

Moon square Moon
I will relate a story of a girl who mocked me and tried to humiliate me(she didn’t) on my stance on Moon square Moon as not being able to work. She moved in with her boyfriend, with whom she had a squared Moon. The upshot of the story was that he tried to strangle her. She moved out, wrote to me and apologized.
Moon squares will not work. One heart thwarting another will not work.If you tell me you have it and it does or Grandpa and Grandma have it and have been married for 50 years, I don’t believe it was a happy marriage. Don’t urinate on my leg and tell me it is raining.

Mercury square Mercury
This would drive me crazy. I am not sure if I ever had it. I never really paid attention to more superficial relationships. I have never had it in a close relationship. If my mind does not connect with yours, I cannot see a reason to have a relationship with you(Spoken by a Gemini Mercury and Venus)

I hope this article has provided some insights and spurs you on in your pursuit of astrology!

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I have this title not to brag, just to say that experience teaches what study never could. I did a synastry yesterday. I told my client that if she wanted to inhabit hell, she should run after this guy. I am very direct as you can tell. Life is too important to mince words. I have had a lot of experience in doing charts over my ten or so years as an astrologer. I would like to tell you about some things I have learned from doing charts.

1. Watch Chiron in Synastry
Chiron is a very strange planet. It can be said to both heal and repel. I see Chiron in family synastry very often. In families, we do seem to have a lot of pain, unless it is just me, which I doubt.However, in a romantic relationship, one gets to choose. Hence, one can be informed through astrology.

There are certain Chiron aspects in synastry that are a simple “no go” for me. One is Chiron conjunct the North Node. That which conjuncts the North Node will be a life theme. Most people do not want pain as a life theme.

I do think that Chiron will repel many romantic relationships BEFORE they make the altar. In the case of one person’s Chiron conjunct the personal planet of another, I think the couple will be repelled if they do not rush into marriage. Chiron aspects such as these produce an initial attraction. However, the people( or one of them) feels too vulnerable with the deep soul mate level of sharing that ensues. This person usually runs away.This would be one reason not to hurry into marriage.

2. Watch Nessus in Synastry

I am not saying a Nessus heavy synastry could not marry. I am saying that the Nessus person will have the ultimate power in the relationship. Also, there will be a feeling that abuse could a part of the relationship, even if that abuse is buried for the moment. I think certain Nessus placements will result in overt abuse. Placements such as Nessus conjunct the Ascendant or MC will result in abuse from the Nessus person to the angle person. I am using the word”will” correctly because I believe this will occur.
An individual with Nessus conjunct his Ascendant, MC or North Node will be an abusive person, most likely. Hence, if your guy or gal has this, make sure YOU have equal power because you will have to fight.
Nessus conjunct Venus in synastry always seems to break up. The Nessus person is the abuser of the Venus person but this may not be revealed at the beginning of the relationship. In the case of Moon conjunct Nessus. The Nessus person may not be an overt abuser of the Moon person, but the hidden threat would be there. There is so much to say about this asteroid that I could write a tome. However, please check my search engine if you want more information because I think I have covered most Nessus eventualities.

3. Watch the Moons in Synastry

If I could tattoo one thing on my chest, it would be this. Squared Moons will not work. I can write this on the board one hundred times. I don’t care if you tell me grandma and grandpa had this and they will happy. I don’t believe it! You were not in their bedroom. Were you?
The Moon is the deepest and most tender part of a person. Each person needs understanding and this aspect does not allow for that. Period End.

Moon oppose Moon is a relationship of opposites. One would cry and the other would say”grow up”. I do not like this myself but I have seen it work. In a case such as this a Moon/Mercury in a good aspect could save it.

Moon quincunz Moon would not last either. The quincunx feels terrible. It is one of those aspects that feels like chalk scratching on a board. It just feels terrible like a stomach ache.

Moon conjunct Moon and Moon trine Moon is best friends and soul mates( although I hate that word). No one is really a soul mate to another because we are each so different and we annoy each other.

4 Watch Bad Asteroids

For all the people who don’t like the word “bad”, please stop reading now. I speak directly. Go find a snowflake who will never take a stand if you don’t like it. There are so many “bad” asteroids that I can name only a few here. In an otherwise good synastry, they can ruin it. I will give some examples. Nemesis is a hidden enemy. If his Nemesis conjuncts your Sun, Moon, Ascendant or North Node, he will betray you. It will be a horrible betrayal because it will be hidden and this may be the worst kind. When you do see it, it will be too late.

Aphophis causes utter chaos that can lead to destruction. If his Aphophis conjuncts your Sun, Moon, Venus, Ascendant or MC, he will destroy you.

There are asteroids such as Grieve, which cause grief. Sado is sadism. One does not want these asteroids touching one’s personal points in the chart. Please, check my search engine for articles on particular asteroids.

I hope you have enjoyed this article as much as I have enjoyed writing it!

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I am sorry I have not written an article for some time.I have not answered the comments for some time. I am very, very sorry. I answered all of them, I think, and am here if you want to comment on my articles. This is the best way to ask me questions. I am not on Facebook very much. The censorship is too hard to deal with. It is very frustrating!

The other reason for my being MIA, to some extent because you can get me in my e mail, is that I have been trying to be good enough on my guitar to play and sing in public. I can’t tell you HOW hard it is for someone who has been sexually abused to let go. YIKES. However, I have been going through your great comments and I am so glad to have you in my astro family that I wanted to say hello and offer some of the new things I have learned. I love doing charts and it is my honor to do your charts. I learn so much from you and appreciate your reading my website and getting a chart if you want. It is about serving you the best I can. That is my honor! Onto the article.

Tidbits

1.Pholus conjunct the Sun is super annoying. I want to pull my hair out when I hear them talk. There is a famous U Tube Christian person with this and I almost scream when I listen to her channel. Her dad was HORRIBLE to her, which makes sense because Pholus makes everything explosive. Her relationship with her dad exploded her life, so to speak.

2.If your Nessus conjuncts the Sun of another person, you will want to abuse them. You may not do so, but the urge will be there.

3.Squared Suns in synastry make it hard to live with someone. You see the world very, very differently. It is like Felix and Oscar in tne “Odd Couple”. Square moons make it impossible. Don’t argue with me. It will come true in time even if you think he is the hottest thing since sliced bread now.

4.An Unaspected Mars will have a temper that is BAD. If it is Cardinal, it is worse. Mutable is the best one to have, but it is still bad.

5. Jupiter makes worse that which it touches if the asteroid is bad. So, Sado conjunct Jupiter would make one more of a sadist. Nessus conjunct Jupiter would make one more of an abuser etc

6. Jupiter makes better that which it touches if it is a good asteroid. Juno conjunct Jupiter would be a very loyal person. Ceres conjunct Jupiter would be a very loving person.

7.The Fixed star Algol is trouble. When it conjuncts the Moon, you abuse yourself. When it conjuncts the Sun, Mars, MC or Algol, you abuse others. Trump has it conjunct Algol. GULP

8. Bellona is the goddess of war. I have her conjunct a Cancer Mars, which tends to be a shut down Mars. However, Bellona makes one a fighter. Don’t mess with me unless you have a gun!

9.That which conjuncts your Aura asteroid is what others see in you but it may not be real. For example, you could have Dejanira conjunct Aura as I do and appear weak but other placements, such as the above, could make you strong, in actuality.

10. That which conjuncts your NN will be a theme of your life. If Nessus is there, you will be an abuser unless you have many, many aspects for being a sensitive person. If you have Ceres there, you will be loving. So, find out the meaning of the asteroids ( and planets) conjunct your North Node

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I have been doing charts for over ten years and may have done thousands, so I have learned many things that only experience provides. The conclusion is not to go to a surgeon without experience. Now that we have dispensed with the humor, let’s get on with the tips.

1. Your chart is the blueprint of you. You are unique. God wanted you as you are. He loves you and wants you to love yourself. The chart shows every hair on one’s head. In fact, I almost never do charts for people in real life (that I tell them about I do them for my own secret files, of course) because I can see so much that a person may not want to face me the next day. No one should feel like that because we all have many warts, but we still do.

2. Your Venus shows that which you love, admire and that to which you are attracted. Every person is attracted to someone for whom the next person would cringe. I have many articles on the nature of each Venus.You can put the term “Venus” in the Search Engine. I am a Venus in Gemini. I love words. I love to read. I Stephen King much sexier than Brad Pitt.A Venus in Gemini loves an environment which is light, bright and airy. I love Pottery Barn.If you take any Venus and try think about how it would decorate its home. For example, Venus in Capricorn would like rich wood and fabrics. It would want the home to look expensive. Venus in Scorpio may have an intense feeling in the home with the use of darker art images or dark colors.

3.Mars in Scorpio is always the sexiest guy. I formed this opinion ten years ago based on someone who was very sexy. I have not changed my opinion at all. Rather, it has increased. I always check the charts of men I think are Mars in Scorpio and I am usually correct.Some women are not attracted to a Mars in Scorpio. I really can’t understand it, but I think it would be fair to say that if there is a “sexiest guy in class award”, he would get it.

4.If you ever have to live with a person who has a Sun which is square your Sun, life will be a permanent cockfight.The fights will be about how one manages one’s life.By this, I mean the manner in which one organizes one’s house and the manner in which one sees himself in relationship to the world.It is more of one’s stance in the world. For example, one person will be very organized and the other will be a disorganized slob, not that I am talking from experience.

5. One really cannot discount asteroids. One will never discover one’s core identity/soul without them. Also, the chart will not fit oneself and one will wonder why. Asteroids answer this dilemma. They are like seeing a photo of a person or seeing the in person in real life. It is totally different. If you ever met someone from the internet, which I did, you will understand what I mean.

6.Moon trine Venus is always charming. I know I have this one on all of my lists, but I have to say that it is always correct. I love this aspect!!

7.Chiron will come to fruition and there is nothing you can do to change this. When I used to fight with people who disagreed with me, I use to fight with fists and feet, but now I walk away. I see the chart as being fixed in many things. The “woke” people think you can change anything if you have Zen enough. They will find out sooner or later, so why break a nail over it. The house of Chiron is a big key. That house will reflect an area of your life with a great deal of enduring pain. Please, find my articles on the houses of Chiron, so you can understand this planet. When I do a chart and help the person to see his Chiron, I usually find a note of relief in that person. He can face what he may have pushed away. Most importantly, it is not his fault.

8.The Moon is your heart. It is that simple. I do not believe( and have gotten into many fights about this when I was fighting) that people with Moons squared can live together. I hope you assume I mean without killing each other. I had a classic example of a

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I need my own website because I disagree with most astrologers. Many of them do not like me and some leave nasty comments. I delete them unless they have comic relief. However, I am a serious Bible believer and the Bible does not indicate that everyone can change everything i.e live a life of permanent bliss. If this could happen, one would have to do it via Jesus, but I don’t think it is possible in this painful and corrupt world. The world system of thought and the Bible system of thought is very different. To be successful in the world, you have to be gorgeous and rich. To be successful with God, you simply have to accept Him into your heart. The only thing a human can offer God is his will, his obedience.

Many people think a Christian should not dabble in astrology because astrology is a dark art. I do not agree or I would not do astrology. I am not ego invested in being an astrologer. If I felt I was not pleasing God, I would simply delete my website. However, I believe He wants me to be here doing what I do. I have the asteroid Astrowizard in exact conjunction with my Ascendant.I do truly, truly love astrology. I help people. I try to tell all my clients about Jesus, but if they are not interested I do not push. Jesus is too wonderful to push on anyone.

To relate all of this to the topic of this article. I, as a Christian, can accept that I will always have flaws and struggles. The chart shows me exactly what they are. I think it is silly for a person to die on the hill that he can change anything if he is only Zen enough. That is a deception, but most things in this world are deceptions. The Bible is the only thing on this earth that is complete truth.It is the only thing on which we can depend.

Onto the topic.

1. Chiron in the chart cannot be changed. You will have pain in the house of Chiron. Everyone has Chiron in some house, so everyone will have pain. It just differs. Also, I do think some charts are more painful and difficult than others. However, every single chart is very difficult. I used to think I had an easy chart. However, I could not really understand how this could be because I had many people in my life who were very hard to deal with. I found the answer in asteroids. It shows that I would have much sorrow from the people close to me, such as early deaths and people who were not really sane. Didn’t I say that nicely?
However, God gave me many gifts and many avenues to deal with this pain, such as a love of reading and I found Jesus through it all, so it was a small price to pay.

2. The aspects to Chiron will show the NATURE of this pain. Some people have so much pain that is it likened to a gun shot wound. If Chiron is in close aspect to the Ascendant, that person is often bullied.If Chiron is in close aspect to the MC,a person’s pain will be evident to the public somehow. I knew someone with Chiron conjunct the MC and he was 300 pounds. People could literally see his pain. I have many articles on Chiron and it’s aspects. Do not underestimate Chiron. Don’t feel the pain is your fault. It can’t be if I can tell you all about it from your simple birth information.

3. Your relationship with your mother will be shown in the chart. It will be shown by your Moon sign and by it’s aspects.For example, if Chiron conjunct the Moon, the relationship with the mother will be very painful. No one can change this. This is what I mean by aspects that cannot be changed. No one wants a painful relationship. Usually, both people try to produce a happy relationship but many times, it is not possible.

4. Your relationship with your father will be shown in the chart. In this case, the Sun’s aspects will reveal the nature of the relationship. Also, if the Sun is in the 12th house, the father is absent. If the Sun is conjunct Uranus, the father is crazy. I like to call it as it is. Also, with Sun conjunct Uranus, the father and the native are both brilliant. When I say crazy, I am really being too severe. It could be more of eccentric. However, the father was an unstable force for the native.
I have done many articles on the relationship with the father as shown in the chart. For this article, I want to say that no matter how hard one tries, one cannot always make a relationship good. Astrology can help one to find peace with this.

5. Your ability to reach out to people or not be able to do so is seen in the chart. A chart that has most planets in the lower half is an introvert. The chart that has most planets in the upper half is an extrovert. This is a general statement and a guideline. Other aspects could modify this.

6. I have seen Pluto square the Sun in cases of early death of the father.In other instances, there was a relationship with the father in which deep emotions were repressed on both sides. In other words, it was a powder keg relationship which could blow at any minute. However,as much fighting as may be done, the relationship is unlikely to be a healthy one. This is no fault of either person. It is the nature of the chart energies.

7. Charisma is seen in the chart. Anyone with Mars conjunct Venus will have oodles or charisma. Willie Robertson has this. To me, he exemplifies charisma. Charisma is different than sexiness but they do overlap. The native with Mars conjunct Venus usually has both. I will give an example of beauty without charisma, in my opinion. It is Melanie Trump or Ivana Trump. Donald Trump has lots of charisma. I used to be a huge Trump fan but am not any longer. I think he is not being honest in many, many, many ways.

8. Beauty is seem in the chart. Any aspect of Venus to the Ascendant shows beauty.With the easy aspects, such as the trine, the beauty seems more wholesome. With the hard aspects, it seems more edgy. Also, certain Venus-like asteroids confer beauty. One example is Aphrodite.

9. Lilith conjunct the Ascendant is always sexy. Lilith conjunct the MC is always sexy but does not like the attention. She is the proverbial girl who wants to be liked for her brain. Go figure.

10.Anything conjunct your Moon will be felt deeply but may not show. For example, Eros conjunct the Moon will be an erotic person but it may not appear so on the surface. Eros conjunct the Ascendant will appear sexy. There are yin placements in which things can be hidden. There are yang placements in which things are apparent. Some examples of yang placements are the ASC, MC, Sun and Mars. Some examples of Yin placements are the Moon, Venus, the IC and the DSC. I have an article on yin and yang placements.

Honestly, I could write a hundred pages on this topic. If you would like me to write more, let me know in the comment section.

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